But it’s not enough to ‘just do it.’ How you ‘just do it’ is just as important.
He knows what keeps Chuck Norris awake at night. |
Lead by example whenever you do what you do. Perform the task like someone who’s eager to learn is watching. Ninety percent of communication is body language. Teach and inspire through your actions. Good actions and habits are infectious and good people will emulate them. It’s proof that not all infections are a bad thing.
Offer
advice when it’s asked for. People with good advice to offer are sought after.
If you’re one of those people you’ll be found. Never throw advice at people who
don’t ask for it. Trying too hard to look smart just makes you look stupid.
Advice is all about helping others become better. It has nothing to do with
making ourselves look good.
If your name is Charlie Brown I’d advise you to consult another specialist. |
Lend a hand when two simply aren’t enough. Lend two hands if you can. It’ll pay off in those moments when you discover that your own two hands simply aren’t enough. If you're lending three hands consult your family physician.
Always
find the fun in what you do. It’s more than possible. It’s essential. People
respond positively and productively to good-natured and lighthearted settings. I worked
in one of the most productive and efficient wholesale retail bakeries in Canada
for five years. Customers would actually watch and marvel at how we laughed so
much while doing so much so quickly. I heard more laughter and joking in that
bakery than I did while hanging out with my friends at night. And my friends had
plenty of funny bone in them! When you find the fun you’ll find yourself getting
more things done.
Tackle
the most daunting tasks first. Confront the most difficult activity when you’ve
got the most energy. I always start my chest and back workout by doing my push-ups
and pull-ups first. Once you’ve faced the gale everything else feels like a
breeze.
Be
constructive when you critique other people’s work. If you need to tell someone
they’re done something wrong make sure you offer a method for doing it right. Telling
a carpenter to tear down and reframe the walls he’s just raised without pointing
out what needs fixing never works. At that point being told to ‘fuck right off’
is the least of your concerns. You should be more concerned about the hammer he’s
just thrown at your head. Mistakes are great building blocks for promoting improvement
and learning. Use them accordingly.
Remind
yourself and others of what’s been accomplished. Realizing how far we’ve come
makes the destination seem much closer. There’s no better fuel for reaching an objective.
If
you can’t do it then don’t do it. Admitting we need help to do something right
is better than denying we need help and doing something horribly wrong. In seeking
help we always find a greater strength.
Take
a break for your own sake. If you’re standing and walking, then sit down. If
you’re sitting and thinking, then get up and go for a walk. Working hard at
whatever we do breaks down our bodies and minds. Breaking from our tasks builds
them back up. Pace yourself. Trying to sprint through a marathon never
works.
Know
when to call it a day. We all have our own thresholds. You’ll know when you’ve
hit yours. Trying to remain highly productive once our energy’s spent is highly
destructive. There’s no shame in punching the clock after giving a good, honest
effort.
Always
be open to critiques and suggestions. If they’re good, find ways to incorporate
them. If they’re not, try to politely end the conversation without throwing
that hammer I mentioned at the person’s head. The true expert never stops seeking
ways to improve their craft. The true fool believes they can know everything.
Success always dies a hard death at vanity’s doorstep.
Drums in the deep...lock up your doors Bob, you let the secret out...they are coming!
ReplyDeleteHaha! Thanks for the head's up, Dave!
DeleteGreat advice, Bob! Funny how some of the most sound advice seems like the most obvious and simplest. Great job :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Jason,
DeleteGuess you gotta keep it simple to keep it real. Ha ha! Cheers!
Bob